Let’s face it…some things you should keep to yourself. Mainly because respect and understanding is a two way street. There are things women don’t want men to say to them..and so it goes for men! Here are a few tips:
1. Steer Clear Of His Internet Search History
You don’t want to know. It’s probably all the same on most guy’s browsing history but you’re going to get the wrong idea. There are some things you can’t unsee and there probably won’t be an explanation you’ll accept, regardless.
2. There’s No Changing Him
Sure, you already know this but many women still think it’s possible. Even if you manage to do it..he won’t ever forgive you for it, just love him for the way he is. If he changes to your liking even MORE then just take it as another good turn in the relationships. Don’t try and boast that it’s because of you.
3. Don’t Take It Personal If He Checks Out Another Girl
Unless he walks up and smacks her on the ass or takes a pic and sends it to his friend…just chalk it up to nature. He saw it, acknowledged it and moved on, no big deal. He’s sitting there with you, going home with you and he’s thinks you’re more beautiful anyway.
4. His Friends Will Come First
His best friends have been through it all with him. They get the nod when it comes to the clutch. Unless the friend is COMPLETELY out of line which means they’ll stop hanging out for a while until they have a coming to peace. Other than that…just let him have his friends and don’t try to get rid of them.
5. Don’t Criticize His Mother
If he wants to vent, listen. But whatever you do…don’t start the onslaught on your own. Chances are you have good qualities that he likes, possibly instilled in him by her, so just keep it quiet. It’s a fight you don’t want to start.
6. You Have To Let Things Go
Bringing up the old stuff just isn’t necessary. Just let the stuff go. You two argued over it, settled it and now it’s gone. There’s no reason to go back in time just to have an argument all over again!
7. Don’t Ask Questions You Don’t Want To Know The Answers To
Everyone has baggage or a crazy past. Some things are better left in the past and some questions you don’t want to know the answer. It’s just the way it is. If you know you’re not gonna like the answer or have a feeling you’re not gonna like the answer, reconsider.